Dr. Google is a first time mom's best frenemy during pregnancy.
It's so easy to freak out about every little thing, especially during that high risk first trimester, but all that worry isn't good for anyone. Every little twinge feels like it's an impending miscarriage and even the absence of discomfort can be troubling. Stay calm!
Here are some things that are perfectly normal during pregnancy.
1. Absence of symptoms.
I didn't know I was pregnant until the late first trimester, around 8 weeks, because super clear symptoms (debilitating morning sickness and fatigue) didn't start until around 7 weeks for me.
I missed my period before that, had some achiness in my breasts and mild lower back pain, but none of these symptoms were clear or strong enough for me to really think anything was wrong.
For women who are actively trying to conceive and possibly testing even before their missed period, they may know they are pregnant a full month before experiencing any pregnancy symptoms. That doesn't mean that the pregnancy isn't viable, just that symptoms take some time to show up!
2. "Period" cramps.
I had really sharp cramps several times in the late first trimester. They were so painful, I was sure that I must be miscarrying.
I wasn't. The baby was totally fine and the pregnancy completely viable.
Cramps in the first trimester can be perfectly normal, even when they really hurt. There's a lot of growth and shifting around that's happening in there at that time, including growing an entire new organ (the placenta)!
3. Lightening crotch.
This pregnancy symptom is pretty much exactly what it sounds like and it's not fun. I freaked out about every little pain in my early pregnancy, because I wasn't aware that pregnancy is often uncomfortable beyond just nausea, fatigue, and eventually the weight of a giant bump.
But it is! Pregnancy is hard, but that can be normal and nothing to worry about.
4. Spotting.
July 3 at around 1:30pm I saw a spot of bright red blood in my underwear. All these months later, I still remember how the icy fear gripped me the moment I saw it. I couldn't move. I was sure that this was it, the beginning of the end.
I told my husband and he comforted me, assuring me that everything would be okay no matter what happened. We watched a tv show, I can't remember which one, and while I couldn't focus on a thing that was going on on the screen just having the distraction and his arm around me helped.
A few hours later, the light spotting had stopped. It turned out it was due to mild cervical irritation, which can happen for any reason from exercise to sex, and our baby was never in danger. It also turned out that a lot of women experience spotting at some point during their pregnancy.
It's always good to check with your doctor when you see blood during pregnancy. That's what they're there for. But while you definitely should let your doctor know, you don't need to immediately panic. Spotting is quite common during early pregnancy.
5. Not feeling kicks until 20+ weeks.
I felt my first clear, defined kicks at about 20+3 mid-flight. Maybe she's a little traveler already! While second and third time moms may feel kicks earlier, it's not uncommon for first time moms not to feel kicks until 20 weeks or later into the pregnancy.
If you have an anterior placenta, it may take until the late second trimester to feel anything. Don't worry - as long as everything else looks good at your doctor's appointments and on your scans, your little one will soon be kicking up a storm.
6. Gaining weight nonlinearly.
While week-by-week pregnancy weight gain recommendations suggest that pregnancy weight gain follows more or less linear patterns, that couldn't be further from the truth for most women.
An S-shaped curve is much more common for weight gain, with slow gain (sometimes even a little loss) in the first trimester, more rapid gain in the second trimester, and gain leveling off in the third trimester.
Some weeks you may gain four pounds in a week and some weeks you might gain nothing at all.
Some people stop gaining entirely at the end of the third trimester and may even lose a pound or two, while others may see the pounds pack on as baby starts building his/her fat stores.
Some people gain neatly within the 25-35 pounds recommended for a single (not twin) pregnancy and a normal starting BMI, while others may gain less than or more than that range. Don't worry - as long as you're being mindful of your health, eating when hungry and to satiety, and eating mostly nutritious food (with some cravings thrown in, if you have them), our body will do what it needs to do, whether that's gain 27 pounds or 52.
All of these things are fine.
One thing to keep an eye out for is very rapid gains in a short period of time. Particularly in the third trimester, gaining 5+ pounds in a week can be a warning sign for preeclampsia. Let your doctor know! They'll likely check your blood pressure and check your urine for protein, to make sure that your rapid gain isn't signaling something more serious.
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